Lead, which sounds like [leed], is most often used as verb that means to guide.
It can also be used as a noun in the sense of meaning first position or a potential opportunity.

Led is a verb and is the past tense and part participle of lead. It sounds like [red].

Examples:
As a noun: I got a LEAD on a job opportunity. ~ sounds like [leed]
As a noun: I was the social media LEAD for 2 years. ~ sounds like [leed]
As a verb - present tense: I LEAD a simple life. ~ sounds like [leed]
As a verb - past tense: I LED him to the bike path. ~ sounds like [red]
As a verb - past participle: Peoples' hatred has LED me to believe they are in need of a better education. ~ sounds like [red]

So what is causing all the confusion?

LEAD - a metal. It sounds like [red]. It's a noun.

Examples:
LEAD is often used in pencils. ~ sounds like [red]
That went over like a LEAD balloon. ~ sounds like [red]

One more just for fun:
LEAD poisoning can LEAD to severe health problems. ~ first one sounds like [red]. Second one  sounds like [leed].

Should've, Could've, Would've. Didn't.

These are called past modal verbs, often referred to as the unreal conditional. We use these when talking about unreal events in the past - used to describe what someone should have done, could have done, or would have done, but didn't. Alternatively, it can be used to describe what someone shouldn't have done, couldn't have done, or wouldn't have done, but did.

The structure is as follows:

Could have + past participle
Should have + past participle
Would have + past participle

Couldn't have + past participle
Shouldn't have + past participle
Wouldn't have + past participle

Examples of the past participle (irregular verbs):

More examples:
I  could have been an astronaut, but decided I wanted to be an English teacher.
He shouldn't have had that extra piece of chicken. He did, and now he feels sick.
We should have gone to Florida this winter, but decided to spend our money on concerts instead.
I could have easily broken my back shovelling. Good thing I have a snow blower! 
If I were her, I would have begun the meeting by introducing all the participants. Now everyone is guessing who everyone else is.
I could have eaten more cake, but that would have been selfish.

Before I finish, I need to impart some invaluable knowledge. When speaking, it's OK to use the contracted form of these words. However, in formal writing, contractions are frowned upon, so correct spelling is incredibly important. To do otherwise reflects poorly on you.

So here is the official edict:
Could've = could have NOT could of
Should've = should have NOT should of
Would've = would have NOT would of

References:
blog.oxforddictionaries.com/2013/08/29/what-is-the-origin-of-twerk/

I was listening to some Christmas music when I decided what to write about this month - Christmas expressions.
I picked three fun ones.

Christmas comes but once a year - Literally, it means that Christmas comes but once a year, but what is implied here is that we should enjoy it to the fullest. More often than not, it means, at least in my circles, to indulge in food and drink.
Example: Bonnie, do you want another piece of cake? Umm yes, please. Christmas comes but once a year. (However, I have been known to say this for birthdays and other such celebratory occasions.)

Christmas came early (this year) - This is said when someone receives unexpected good news, as Christmas is a happy time of the year.
Example: Shelly is doing much better and is back from the hospital. Looks like Christmas came early this year for her and her family.

The holiday spirit - This is said when one is excited about the holiday (Christmas).
Example: I've been listening to classic Christmas songs all afternoon. I'm really feeling the holiday spirit.

​Share your favourite expressions!

Conscience is a noun. It’s that inner voice inside your head that gives you some “moral” guidance – to know the difference between right and wrong. The conscience is what is responsible for making people feel guilty of actions they did or did not do. For example, I should go to the gym tonight and work out. I have a guilty conscience because I know I won’t go. But what clears my conscience is knowing that I am working on this blog post – not just lazing around. That's today's excuse, anyway.

Conscious is an adjective. Conscious is a description of a state. If you’re awake, you are conscious – meaning that you are aware of your surroundings. But being asleep is not the same as being unconscious. A sleeping person will respond to loud noises or a gentle shake – an indication that they are aware of their surroundings – whereas an unconscious person will not.

The origin of Halloween begins in Ireland’s Celtic past. I take pride in knowing that the Whelan’s (my surname) were among the first to celebrate one of my favorite holidays.

The celebration dates back to Samhain (pronounced Sow-in). Samhain was celebrated on the 1st of November, and was much like our current New Year. And like New Year’s, the real celebration takes place the night before – to bring in the new year. The Celts ended their year with Fall – a time when all the crops would be harvested and placed in storage for a long winter.

Samhain was also spiritual in that it was believed that at this time, the boundaries between the living and dead got blurred. To ward off the evil let loose at Samhain, huge bonfires were lit and people wore ugly masks and disguises to confuse the spirits and stop the dead from identifying individuals they had disliked during their own lifetimes. Some people would leave food outside their homes in hope that their generosity could appease the dead.

As with many pagan holidays, Christianity pushed its way in to create a more “acceptable” Christian event. Sure enough, November 1st was declared to be All Saints Day, also known as All Hallows Day. The evening before became known as Hallows' Eve, and from there the origin of Halloween, as a word, is clear.

Many Americans (and thereafter Canadians) don’t realize that Halloween was never celebrated until the arrival of the Irish in the 1840s. It’s believed that when Irish immigrants moved to the US, the native pumpkin was adopted for Halloween purposes. Traditionally, it had been the Irish turnip – YIKES!
​
This year, as you celebrate Halloween, you can remember your Celtic forbears and wish one another a happy and prosperous New Year.

References:
https://www.irish-genealogy-toolkit.com/origin-of-Halloween.html
https://www.ireland-fun-facts.com/celtic-halloween.html
​

Every so often, a conversation arises where someone is accused of being either a geek or a nerd, and about 95% of the time, the designation is incorrect. It’s at this point where I make a decision – correct the info and “risk” being called a nerd, or grin and bear it and hope the conversation segues into another topic.

And that brings us here – the reason for this particular blog post.

The diagram above clarifies things visually, but let’s gets down to business.

Nerd – A nerd is a person who is very knowledgeable in an academic subject – they are practitioners. Typically, a nerd is portrayed as being intelligent, obsessed with a subject, and displays a bit of social ineptitude, which means they are socially awkward.

Geek – A geek is a person who is an enthusiast of a particular subject. They are fans, and fans collect stuff. Typically, a geek is portrayed as being intelligent and obsessed.

Dork – A dork is not too good of a term unless the dork is aware that they are a dork – then it’s funny. Today, dorks are described as people who do silly, ridiculous things. Based on the diagram above, they are typically portrayed as being obsessed (with what?) and are socially inept.

Dweeb – Out of the four, this one is the least favourable to be called. According to the Oxford Dictionary, a dweeb is someone who is boring, studious, or socially inept. The diagram indicates that dweebs are also considered intelligent – though I beg to differ.

I’m sure people will have strong opinions on these distinctions. In my opinion, nerds and geeks are the new 
“cool kids”, but that’s my bias surfacing as I fall a little bit into both categories. 

Cats feature very often in English idioms, and since I love cats, I thought I’d relate to you the origin of one.

A cat nap is a short, light sleep. It is also known as a power nap. A short cat nap is about 20 minutes long.

Did you know the origin of napping all started in Ancient Egypt? Cats were considered sacred, so the Pharaohs began to emulate this animal’s behaviour. When I nap, I tend to copy my cats’ behaviour a little more literally – by taking a two-hour nap.

I wonder if this is also the origin of copycat?

Source:
https://blog.abaenglish.com/english-expression-cat-nap/

​Thinking about what I would post for the end of a hot summer day in July, I thought it might be “cool” to write about a well-known idiom, the dog days of summer.
 
So I looked it up.
 
The ‘dog days of summer’ is an expression used to describe the uncomfortably hot, sultry days of summer. There’s a lot to do about Greek and Roman astrology, but the short of it is that it is connected to the star Sirius, in the constellation Canis Major (Greater Dog). It is known more commonly as the “dog star”.
 
Because it’s the brightest star in the sky, it received a lot of attention from ancient astronomers. It became known as the precursor to the unbearably hot phase of summer. People believed that this star was responsible for bringing the hottest and driest periods of the summer.
 
Ready for some science?
 
While it is true that Sirius is the brightest star in the sky from Earth, it has no effect on the planet’s weather or temperature. Also true is that the star continues to return to the night sky in the Northern hemisphere in late summer. However, its position will continue to shift gradually and in about 10,000 years, it will actually appear in the middle of winter.

References:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dog_days

Let’s talk about it, eh?
 
Internationally, Canadians are mocked for their use of  “eh”. It’s recognized as a uniquely Canadian form of speech, often to the point of exaggeration and stereotype. And we’re so aware of this stereotype that we play along and create awesome shows of the likes of “Bob and Doug MacKenzie”, which started as a famous skit on SCTV.
 
But did you know that not only does it exist in other languages, but it also does not originate in Canada?
 
“Eh” has its roots in Middle English and has been recorded in writings as far back as Chaucer. That’s the 1300s!
 
Similar interjections exist in other languages, such as Dutch, Armenian, Hokkien Chinese, Japanese, French, Finnish, Italian, Greek, Hebrew, Malay, Spanish, Persian, Portuguese, Arabic, Turkish, Korean, Catalan, and Filipino.
 
In Canada, “eh” is an interjection, meaning, "Excuse me?" "Please repeat that", or as many of our American neighbours might know it by, "Huh?”. It is also commonly used as an alternative to the question tag “right?” like asking for confirmation in “It’s hot out, eh?”
 
To understand all of the nuances of the Canadian “eh”, a student from the University of Toronto, Elaine Gold, compiled a list by conducting a survey in 2004. This is the most extensive list of the different variations.

Fun, eh?

Sources:
https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/eh/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eh

My co-workers and I got the chance to do some team building at an escape room last week. The theme all around took place in Ottawa, Canada in the 1920s. The room I played in was called The Parlour, where bootlegging was rumoured to have occurred. It was after we "escaped" and celebrated that we questioned how selling alcohol illegally became to be known as bootlegging.

​And as we have it, we live in the day of Google, so I found the answer.

And now I shall share it with you.

From 1920-1933, there was a national prohibition of alcohol in the United States. It stemmed from something called the "temperance movement", which attributed alcohol to all of society’s ills. A not-so-fun experiment to reduce crime and corruption. ​

The word seems to have first appeared in the American Midwest in the 1880s to denote the practice of concealing flasks of illicit alcohol in boots when going to trade with Native Indians. The term became part of the American vocabulary during its Prohibition (of alcohol) period, from 1920 until its repeal in 1933. 

What's interesting is that Canada actually had a prohibition period itself, although for a significantly shorter period of time. I guess we quickly said something to the effect of "f*ck that sh*t."​

Sources:

• https://www.britannica.com/topic/bootlegging 
• http://prohibitionincanada.blogspot.ca/p/smuggling-bootegging-and-something.html
  

TRICK #1
Now this trick only works when dealing with sentences. I have another trick for when we get into questions.
 
Look at the word that follows who/whom. If the word is a verb, then use who. If the word that follows is a noun/pronoun, then use whom.
 
While not everyone might know or even think about it, word order for the English language is Subject-Verb-Object, also known as SVO. Now pretend that this goes on forever:
SVOSVOSVOSVO…
 
Example:
I want to know who/whom you love.
Logic used: The word that follows “who/whom” is “you”.
“You” is a pronoun.
It fits into the pattern this way: SVOSVO
Correct: I want to know whom you love.
 
Example:
I wonder who/whom borrowed the book.
Logic used: The word that follows “who/whom” is “borrowed”.
“Borrowed” is a verb.
It fits into the pattern this way: SVOSVO
Correct: I wonder who borrowed the book.
 
TRICK #2
But you know what? This could be tricky for some people, so here’s an even simpler way:
 
Who = she/he (subject)
Whom – her/him (object)
 
Example:
I want to know who/whom you love.
Ask yourself, what sounds right?
You love he. / You love him.
Correct: I want to know whom you love.
 
Example:
I wonder who/whom borrowed the book.
Ask yourself, what sounds right?
She borrowed the book. / Her borrowed the book.
Correct: I wonder who borrowed the book. -
  
Let’s use examples that are in the form of questions:

Example:
Who/whom did you invite to the party?
Ask yourself, which sounds right?
I invited he. / I invited him.
Correct: Whom did you invite to the party?
 
Example:
Who/whom was the first to step foot on the moon?
Ask yourself, which sounds right?
He was the first. / Him was the first.
Correct: Who was the first to step foot on the moon?
 
Still having trouble? Well, good news. I don’t think too many people would care or even notice if 'whom' slips out of the language altogether. It doesn't add clarity, or even useful nuance. Using it adds a bit of class, but not using it is not the error it might once have been.

​So in the end, who cares?