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Really vs. Very

9/20/2014

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Really and Very are words that add emphasis and intensity to what is being said.
They are not differentiated as being formal vs. conversational. In fact, if I were to judge, they are both informal and would rarely be used in a technical/scientific paper. For example, you could write, "The car is really small" and "The car is very small". Both sentences mean the same thing - there is no nuance in meaning. But why not enrich your vocabulary by using words like "extremely" or "incredibly".

Let's get down to business.

REALLY: An adverb, which means that it's used to describe adjectives, verbs, or other adverbs.

VERY: An adverb, but with one hitch - it cannot modify verbs.
Example: 
I really like it. (correct)
I very like it. (wrong)

But then it gets extra complicated because Very can modify the appearance of verbs in the past participle form, but only because these have been established as adjectives.
Example:
I'm a very driven person. 
Explanation:
Driven, although the past participle of Drive, is actually supporting the adjective role in this sentence, describing the kind of person I am.

Really and Very can be interchangeable when they both modify an adjective.
Example:
She is a really interesting girl.
She is a very interesting girl.

However, there are times when they cannot be replaced by the other. Like I said before, Very cannot modify verbs.
Example:
I really think she is an interesting girl. (correct)
I very think she is an interesting girl. (wrong)

One more difference:
Really can also be used as an interjection - to show surprise or exasperation.
Example:
Me: I saw the band Twisted Sister last month.
You: Wow, really?

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12 Comments
Jeph Stahl link
9/20/2014 03:31:46 pm

I used to listen to Twisted Sister while rollerskating. It was a really very good memory.

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Steve
4/30/2021 06:41:56 am

I'm sorry you can't say "a really very good memory" - just pick one word :-)

(you can actually say "it was really very good" but not with anything after it, and this is special, using 'really' like 'actually', to say something that's maybe different from what people think or expect)

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Bonnie Whelan
9/22/2014 12:11:17 pm

Twisted Sister was one of the best concerts I've ever been to.
I Wanna Rock was sung by the whole entire park (Jean Drapeau in Montreal). It was so loud an awesome.

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Lananh
11/29/2017 08:15:01 pm

why we can not use "very great", "very fantastic" but can say with "really"?

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Bonnie
12/3/2017 04:16:50 pm

That's a really great question. While "great" is an adjective and would mean that "very" could modify it, it's often not used. It wouldn't be incorrect, just not the best style.

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Alexis Klein
10/20/2018 01:39:11 pm

I find this page frustrating when I'm genuinely trying to find which one to use.

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Steve
4/30/2021 06:29:09 am

Summary: you can't use 'very' with verbs (I very like, I very think...) but otherwise you can use either.

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curious native
8/19/2020 10:07:07 am

Nice explanation. But in many circumstances when (according to this rule) either "really" or "very" could be used, native speakers would intuitively say that only one of the two *sounds* correct.

I think a lot of exposure is required for language learners to figure this out and sound natural.

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Dianne W.Page
12/8/2020 08:35:25 am

is there any word 'really'can be use for when someone telling or express her or his feeling like eg - I miss you
and the other was replied 'really?'
or can reply like for real? like seriously?

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animalsrule
3/29/2022 03:00:05 pm

This didn't answer the question I asked but...... It was very helpful

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Bonnie
3/29/2022 04:15:01 pm

I must have missed your question. What was it?

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Steve link
4/9/2022 02:51:54 am

Idk




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